New Patient Appointment, Appointment or 214-645-8300 So did you actually do the NIPT test in a lab or was this just sneak peek? Sorry babe!! fwiw, my mil has three boys and no girls. s. SarahJacks. Search Conditions & Treatments Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. We're naming our's after my grandma (Ruth) and Dh's grandpa (his name was William we're using Willow). Blood tests to screen for certain conditions can tell us gender after nine weeks. So I have/had a friend, who I don't really talk to anymore. I read the study for Sneak peak at it was 100% accurate for detecting males. More in: Learn more about. This ultrasound makes baby look way more developed than my previous pregnany . I got my NIPT test which said boy. The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. I still get a feeling sometimes its a boy. member. What was the fetal fraction found in your nipt? Ive read NIPT can sometimes come back wrong if you had a disappearing twin. I go back in two weeks for another ultrasound at 26 weeks and I will ask the tech to show me again. These type of mistakes happened a lot in the "olden"days. While those percentages may seem pretty high, its not as easy as it sounds. So when we found out we were expecting our first child on Jan. 2, 2017, we knew we wanted to find out the gender. Discussion in 'Baby Club' started by mrs_park, Dec 31, 2014. What was the fetal fraction found in your nipt? I thought that the NIPT is more accurate because they test the actual DNA Ultrasounds are never 100% accurate.. but the picture seems pretty clear lol. Do you have any of your old ultrasound pictures? My DS2 is obessed with me and is the sweetest and cuddliest little guy ever. 13/05/2020 14:39. The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of What to Expect. Not shaming her just don't get it. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. The ultrasound tech seemed in a hurry to get everything done, i was supposed to be in there for an hour and was out within about 30 minutes. I wish I could just know for certain because the wait and unknowing is awful. I don't personally know anyone who has been told the wrong gender but if you are worried then I'd just buy neutral. Unfortunately they didn't give megenital shots :(. NIPT test said girl but 20 week ultrasound shows boy?!!! Like the other poster said, sometimes a girl's genital can be swollen and appear to be a penis on ultrasound or the umbilical cord's placement can look like a penis. It is what it is. I had the NIPT done right at 10w 3d and it came back boy. Sep 1, 2020 at 12:56 PM. Oh, I thought you meant that you had done NIPT! You should totally go with your gut feeling. NIPT is more accurate than an ultrasound at any point during pregnancy so I'd be really surprised if it was wrong! Procedures like noninvasive prenatal testing (NIPT), amniocentesis and chorionic villus sampling (CVS) take a more objective approach, using placental or fetal DNA to determine the sex. The educational health content on What To Expect is reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts to be up-to-date and in line with the latest evidence-based medical information and accepted health guidelines, including the medically reviewed What to Expect books by Heidi Murkoff. I also thought DS was a girl until the day I delivered. The earlier your pregnancy is, the less likely you will get an accurate determination on the boy or girl ultrasound. A sonographer's trained eyes will instead watch for these clues that suggest baby is a girl: From the What to Expect editorial team andHeidi Murkoff,author ofWhat to Expect When You're Expecting. Yes! But I, like everyone else, got over it and accepted it. We had a gender reveal party soon after, and our parents thought we had played a joke on them. There's a very small possibility that the baby is biologically male, but has female genetalia, but that's incredibly rare. Cookie Notice In fact, for this little belly bub, we were given an indication at our 12 week scan that it looked to be developing like a girl, as they were doing an early determination of gender study. For Ramzi I submitted my ultrasound pics @7weeks &1 day - came back as girl ( although baby was looking like a blob lol ) I am little . I think you are losing site of what is important here. You cried when you found out it was a boy? That looks like a boy I'm having a girl and it looks way different. My daughters looked like 3 lines l l l <<<< and we was worried shed be a boy so had a 3d scan. Either way congrats!! I do feel for you though. I was kind of the same way when i found out #2 was a boy, but i was ok with it like the next day, and when i had him i fell completely in love with him. Looks pretty much like they were right - but we'll confirm 100% in about five weeks! My response was quite reserved also. Please select a reason for escalating this post to the WTE moderators: Connect with our community members by starting a discussion. My 20w anatomy scan said girl, she is so absolutely a girl no mistake. Privacy Policy. -.- I was so annoyed lol. And posting the u/s on here hoping to get responses that you want instead of believing a trained tech is dumb. Find advice, support and good company (and some stuff just for fun). So we found out we're having a boy last Wednesday. The blood test picked up a Y chromosome from the twin that miscarried or 2. We're stoked. I'm very sure that's where the Y chromosome is coming from! Learn more about, Learn About What to Expect's Pregnancy & Baby App. Im sure hoping that is where the Y is coming from! Today I had my 20 week scan and the sonographer (didn't know about my NIPT results) announced . Let us know! your husband's sperm determines that, not your fil's. Her feelings are her feelings and no less valid because you had a loss or had trouble getting pregnant or whatever. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register. While we understand you may be eager to learn the gender, try not to be upset if your sonographer cant predict it. Typically done between weeks 18 and 22 of pregnancy, this test checks that all of your baby's organs and limbs are developing as expected including those telltale reproductive organs. And you're welcome!! There's a condition called Swyer syndrome where a person with XY chromosomes develops female sexual organs, which is uncommon but not unheard of. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. They dont tell you what the fetal fraction was but it says that your sample met the minimal threshold. Gender reveal and bought all boy clothes . I read what she wrote in her post. And she had to mourn that family in her head, just like you did. I would give my life to be able to say that for each time I have been pg, and I am not the only one. I know you know a healthy baby is a blessing nomatter what the sex and you are going to fall so hard for your little boy you won't look back!! Your healthcare provider will use a 2D, 3D or even 4D . NIPT is the most accurate way to kn the baby gender, if was a girl the Y chromosome won't on show up.. i did NIPT 5 times n it was never wrong.. i believe its a boy.. n the angel of the ultrasound make it looks like a girl.. However, we didnt rush out to buy pink clothes and paint for the nursery. And we don't have the extra money to go somewhere for a special ultrasound. Maybe, in your case vanishing twin? Within the NHS this method is generally used as part of determining sex at the scan everyone is offered at around 20 weeks. yay! A tech or your doctor are the only ones who can tell you if it's a boy or girl. Your Pregnancy Matters, Appointment If you didn't have an early ultrasound, there's a chance that there was a twin that disappeared early on. Hi! I think its a girl! And we're super bummed because our 20 week ultrasound wasn't that great. I am excited, but my pregnancy hormones are getting the best of me. What a roller coaster ride you must be on! We went to the 20-week ultrasound pretty confident wed soon be buying pink clothes. I got sent home with a cd with about 7 pics on it, monitoring_string = "c48fb0faa520c8dfff8c4deab485d3d2". The ultrasound your trusting the eye of a tech. The sonographer asked if we wanted to guess what we were having. I suspected a girl right off the bat because i had extreme morning sickeness and nausea and craving sweets and fruit just like i did with my daughter. We tested at 10 weeks NIPT and the results came back girl. If so, then I don't get what you are complaining about. I did a sneak peek when I was only 7weeks &1 day , result came back as a girl . My gut said it was a boy and I was completely wrong. Im in the same position this is my third pregnancy. Enter your email address. If it swings in a circle, its a boy; if it swings back and forth, its a girl. baby gender,, Boys and girls genitals develop along the same path with no outward sign of gender until about nine weeks. We only truly know when they are here , true I scheduled a second ultrasound for Thursday just to seee, Wow does look like girl! 17 weeks with #2 and the ultrasound tech said she was pretty sure its a boy. The researchers found that out of 672 cases, sex determination was possible 90 percent of the time, and the prediction was correct 87 percent of the time. her maiden name was king and when she married her last name became skelton but im trying to adjust quickly.. my husband doesnt seem to understand why im still kind of upset about it. She had a dream, an idea, just like you did. Either was im happy, just have to re-do alot of planning if baby is in fact a boy. I had my heart set on a girl, everything planned and picked out, and mainly i wanted to name her after my grandma. We were thrilled at that time to be told we were having a girl. Group Leaders communicate with staff moderators and escalate potential violations for review, but they dont moderate discussions. Sometimes the Y chromosome can carry over apparently even years later at least that is what I have been told. We respect everyones right to express their thoughts and opinions as long as they remain respectful of other community members, and meet What to Expects Terms of Use. Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! She said there are two things that could have happened 1. Edit: the second ultrasound was at 16w. I had my heart set on girls because we also wanted to name them after our grandmothers, who are very ill and won't get to meet them. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. Take time to feel a little sad, cry it out,and move on. Totally a boy. :) maybe your hubby's or other kid's DNA, nope I did it at the doctors office and this is my first baby . This is based in my life experience. Anyone get an incorrect gender prediction at their ultrasound? Although I was hoping for a boy , since I've already have 4 girls . After the gender reveal, the picture that the tech used to identify girl parts was NOT clear at all so I researched what girl parts look like on an ultrasound and when I went back at 22 weeks, I had the tech show me again and it looked just like a girl with the three lines. Does blue vs pink really matter at the end of the day? Yes I think the at home test has more false positives. Was told at 17 weeks she was a boy. I don't think it's the cord because you can really see both penis and sack. I left a message with my doctor but she hasnt called me back. Bottom line, she has a healthy child! The . Your guide to pregnancy-related abbreviations, PeriPAN: Getting pregnant and postpartum women mental health care faster. I thought the blood tests were pretty accurate so long as you got a good fetal %. I would think this would be more likely when an ultrasound tech can't get a good look. think twice before sharing personal details, foster a friendly and supportive environment, remove fake accounts, spam and misinformation, delete posts that violate our community guidelines, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. You can do sneak peek as early as 8 weeks but I waited until 10 weeks. I was told with my first born I was going to have a girl and so my husband and I got everything imaginable for a little girl then, maybe a month before my "due date" they did another ultrasound and bam! Looks like a girl. I had a coworker this happened to also, yeah it was blood work at the dr and I think she had bought a lot of stuff after the test, yeah so I think she was shocked bc it wasnt like a sneak peak thing people do, 2nd pic does look like a girl but I would probably go for a private gender scan just to be sure, I went ahead and scheduled one for Thursday, NIPT can say boy if it was contaminated with male DNA somehow..did you do it at home? If it was just sneak peak the reviews are horrible and I would believe the ultrasound. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. North Carolina mom Nancy Ray said she learned she was having a girl when at 18 weeks the ultrasound technician wrote on paper, "It's a girl!" The 32-year-old mom of two girls ages 1 and 3 . Group Black's collective includes Essence, The Shade Room and Naturally Curly. The specialist says that their dna would be gone by nowbut in a lot of the cases Ive seen when they get a Y and have a girlthere is an older brother! In that case a person will look externally and (for the most part) internally female but not have functioning ovaries or normal hormonal progression. Uh this is freaking me out a bit. I would wait for confirmation at your 20 week scan. - BabyCenter Canada To complain about the sex and not mention gratitude for the life inside if her, is weak. The specialist says that their. Dallas, TX 75390, 2023 The University of Texas Southwestern Medical Center, How proactive physical therapy can improve pregnancy and postpartum care, Pregnancy symptoms that might warrant a trip to the emergency department, Pregnancy before 16 increases long-term health complications for girls and babies, Not too hot, not too cold: Keeping newborns at just the right temperature, Examining the risks and outcomes of home birth, Whooping cough: New concerns about an old disease, Why the skin condition hidradenitis suppurativa complicates pregnancy, Alphabet soup! Has this happened to anyone else before? FWIW, I felt the same when I was told that DS was a boy. I understand the immediate denial, lol. The sonographer walked us photo-by-photo through the anatomy and we got to see our little boy move around. Im just in shock and sad in a way because we have been planning for a girl and we have everything. 1997-2023 BabyCenter, LLC, a Ziff Davis company. I do know someone who this happened to! - Page 2: I'm literally going crazy. you think we are all u/s tech s or radiologists that are going to tell you otherwise to make you feel better. or 817-882-2400, 5323 Harry Hines Blvd. We tend to overpredict boys more often than girls. i have two boys already and i have a gut feeling this one is a girl but my us at 16 weeks say boy but it looks funny and i still cant say boy him he or anything but baby im hoping at 20 week scan they can confirm it or tell me girl. What do you guys think? Sometimes the genitals can be swollen and look like a penis/testicles. This hasn't happened to me but I think I would trust the 20 week US as the baby is more developed now, im a mom of a 19 month old boy and am 22 weeks along with my 2nd boy, boys are SO sweet and they love their mamas if this is your first boy or first baby in general just know you will have the most special bond with him:). Do you happen to have the ultrasound pic when they told you girl? My husband said, Im pretty sure nothing has changed, so its a girl., The sonographer responded, Well, something has changed. I asked how the first draw could have said boy the doctor said it may have been drawn to early. All my pregnancy symptoms point to a boy and me and my husband were always so sure it was a boy. Oh in by the way my mom was told her pregnancy that she was having a boy then when i was born i was a girl and the same thing happened to her cousin she had about five us all said boy but end up being a girl. my question is for the 2nd/3rd/4th time moms, were u ever told it was a girl but then popped out a boy instead? How accurately an ultrasound predicts a babys sex depends on when its performed. Did you end up having boy or girl? Yes i am thrilled about having another baby, i said it up there, that im happy as long as baby comes out healthy, i just didnt quote it, i just wrote it as a reply. During any ultrasound, a sonographer uses a wand called a transducer to emit sound waves through your belly (or other times, transvaginally). It looked very different from this. I have had my girl's name picked out since the 7th grade, but never had much thought about the boy. The tech said she thinks it might be a girl because if it was a boy she should have seen some boy parts. Wait. We scheduled a 3D ultrasound for my third trimester. Let's take a jaunt over to this thread and adjust our view shall we? Im going through the same dilemma lol. We have updated our Terms of Use and encourage you to read them by clicking here. I had to go back in for a redraw that said girl. It's rare for them to get it wrong but it does happen. I was told boy at 18 weeks, but at the 3D/4D ultrasound this past Monday showed it was a little girl. Ultrasounds are used to screen for certain conditions and check whether there is something noticeably wrong with your baby. Your post will be hidden and deleted by moderators. think twice before sharing personal details, foster a friendly and supportive environment, remove fake accounts, spam and misinformation, delete posts that violate our community guidelines, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. I had the NIPT done right at 10w 3d and it came back boy. You are pregnant with a baby, be thankful for fluck sake. So 1 of 2 things happened, my blood was confused with another womans blood or my son I had 24 years ago DNA was still left in my body when having 2 girls after him. I had to go . You may get several ultrasounds throughout pregnancy, but the big gender reveal often happens during your second trimester at the 20-week ultrasound, if you want to know what youre having. Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. We had and experienced tech at 19 weeks show us the three lines saying girl and then a half hour later took it back and said nope definitely a boy! You made another person! ultrasound tech said boy, but gut feeling says girl.. mandy62712. Join now to receive free weekly newsletters tracking your baby's development and yours throughout your pregnancy. Aww sorry sweetie! To explore the two types of significant bonds.its ppl like u that can't see both sides because you're too self involved about your own issues. Lol. Learn more aboutour editorial and medical review policies. My boy's potty shot at 20 weeks was alarmingly clear, even OH and I both knew he was a boy before the midwife said so. Keep in mind, the sonographer may not have extra time between appointments to wait for the baby to move into a better position to make a prediction.A mothers weight also affects our ability to predict gender. when i saw the ultrasound, i saw the 3 lines and it did look like a girl but what do i know? She is getting used to the idea. Looks like a boy! Im getting another NIPT test Tuesday and Ill update everyone on what its says. We were sure we were having a girl. As hard as it may be to wait, if you want to avoid repainting the nursery, hold off until the second trimester to act on any ultrasound results. 13/05/2020 14:13. While parents may have a hard time making out the various parts of their babies bodies during ultrasounds, sonographers look for certain male characteristics: The absence of the above signs doesn't necessarily guarantee the baby is female. And in the case of NIPT, you can find out as early as week 9 of pregnancy. Symptmes de grossesse ne jamais ignorer, Moyens naturels pour dclencher l'accouchement. Apr 28, 2023 at 3:48 PM. She came out a boy! No one wanted to say for sure even at 36 weeks! Skip to Site Navigation Anyone get told one gender then end up with the other? The absence of the above signs doesn't necessarily guarantee the baby is female. 1. That ultrasound pic sure looks like a girl to me. I may have missed it, but I didn't read once about how grateful you are to being having a healthy child. Please specify a reason for deleting this reply from the community. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. I did the lab Sneak peak clinical. A perspective she thankfully doesn't have. We don't really ever know 100% until they are born , My doctor has said this all along. Enter your due date or child's birthday. Learn more about, How to tell if its a boy on an ultrasound, How to tell if its a girl on an ultrasound, our editorial and medical review policies, Level 2 Ultrasound: The 20-Week Anatomy Scan, 9 Scientific Signs That You're Having a Boy or a Girl, Accuracy of Sonographic Fetal Gender Determination: Predictions Made by Sonographers During Routine Obstetric Ultrasound Scans, The Ultrasound Identification of Fetal Gender at the Gestational Age of 1112 Weeks, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. Yes! This is sometimes called nub theory. Using this method, the sonographer looks at whether the tubercle is pointing up toward the babys head, which indicates a boy, or whether it remains flat or points down, indicating a girl.A 2016 study looked at the accuracy of such tests. New Patient Appointment We strive to provide you with a high quality community experience. She was still a she lol. What to Expect follows strict reporting guidelines and uses only credible sources, such as peer-reviewed studies, academic research institutions and highly respected health organizations. Group Black's collective includes Essence, The Shade Room and Naturally Curly. She and her husband had a name picked out and had painted the nursery for a boy when they found out shortly before giving birth that they actually were having a daughter. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. My doctor has the same process. Scan this QR code to download the app now. Not me, but one of my best friends was told girl around 17 weeks and turns out it was a boy at 22 weeks.

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