Its terms like this which conditioned me into thinking men were superior. One word that drives me crazy is harridan. What is surprising is peoples inability to understand that. Besides, it should be a PERSONAL CHOICE, irrespective of gender, as to whether a person wants a career, or wants to stay at home and raise babies. Pingback: Words for women | Clare Flourish. Your email address will not be published. Try to take all the judgment and emotion out of what youre talking about. 11. When I managed people, I had to do countless interviews, evaluations, etc. You see no point in mincing your words. I cant say Ive ever read an article that Ive disagreed with just to comment Youre all just overly-sensitive and offended! But maybe thats just not my personality. Hen Step-by-step guide to Gender Equality Training Preparation phase 1. I was looking for references to share with my team. SHE cannot even bear to MENTION THE FACT I AM DOING POSTGRADUTE STUDY! Artist: Ashley Fairbanks, used with kind permission. 7 words you should avoid using about women in the workplace English has plenty of options. They come from various sources, such as medical terms, terms used in dating, workplace talk But I have hears ALL of them, and been personally subjected to some, including, Dating insults: People die, are refused healthcare, or suffer attack as a result of gender. Also, men havent been oppressed for centuries!!! Do you think calling someone a bastard should be offensive to a guy? Me: Yes. Him: Thats stupid. Then I opened my eyes and took a good hard look at the world. An Honest Dictionary Of Words Used To Describe Women I am also bothered by the use of woman! as a pejorative; typically used in frustration or anger. It grated on me and I pondered why this might be. Theres nothing wrong with these words in themselves, but research on the references people write for graduates (see below) has shown that they are more often used for women than for men, who are more likely to get words of more ringing endorsement like excellent, accomplished or successful. Little woman/lady This means that he/she is friendly or able to receive others. Like another person suggested, I will start with Would you say that or use that about a man? Take the word "bossy", which is mostly used to refer to opinionated girls or women who assert themselves. This hypersensitive nation is encouraging people to feel offended, but feminism is a dying cause. Last I looked, the thread had 425comments and replies. Whilst it is important to value people for themselves, it is also important to understand issues before you start making comments about them. Wifey Seriously. Or Parliament. I had another creepy bunch of colleagues in the NHS (a bunch of Nurses!) Except for Mary the Virgin: she was a good girl. 2. I was highly academic, but got labelled swot and teachers pet. Also: shrill and strident, both of which imply high-pitched and. MILF/GILF (yuck!) Not how differently I started to view other women (for that had been thewhole point of the exercise)but how differently I started to view myself. overpowering. Ban Bossy: What's Gender Got to Do With It? - CCL (this from a person who learned medical terminology as part of training to be a medical office assistant, and again later in training to be a pharmacist). It was my fault that I only had one child as I was too much of a career woman and too selfish. Is this trivial? Though the comments they make may not overtly come across as really blatant offenses, they are still insulting. Agree with you Elaine. Pushy: Most recently, used to describe a remarkably accomplished woman whose high standards and willingness to insist on them aggressively just kinda rubs colleagues the wrong way. Words To Describe A Woman How about these more accurate descriptors? You seem to be creating a straw, er, person. The Missus Then I saw all these celebs gushing over how much of a genius Eminem was. But youre right, its definitely not used now for anything other than men, whereas pretty and beautiful are general-purpose. Baby-hater (or any implication that working females hate kids) That book really opened my eyes and changed my thinking and behaviour Up until about 10 years ago I thought men were stronger, more logical, naturally apt at maths and the use of tools and other stereotypes. 7. Two of the women were killed while protecting Mr Garcia's baby and 2-year-old daughter by embracing them and covering them with clothing, Mr Garcia said at the vigil. Men are people too and i think a large majority of men born in later decades of 20th centuary are doing what they can to find true equality in society. Oh wowzers what an incredible post Thalia! For dozens of phrases for feminist parenting, check out my post here. Whether it's from unconscious bias or downright sexism, women are more frequently described with the first adjective in each set, the modifiers with negative undertones. I find it is much healthier to accept others as doing their best given their upbringing and experience. The point being, however, that society is erring when it tries to suggest that such things are exclusively female roles this is what Feminists try to point out. A person can enjoy holding one baby without being clucky or hearing her clock tick. Andie Fox at Blue Milk writes some of my favourite stuff on how womens care work is largely unacknowledged and unpaid. The words bossy is typically used as an insult to get girls and women to shut up and sit down. WHY do I get the impression that you are probably an embittered ex-nurse, or child carer, or housewife who feels somehow overlooked in their contribution to society? The issue is allot more deeply rooted than allot of the feminist propaganda will admit. You use a lot of very emotive language (e.g. What a valuable post. If people feel angry I am ok with what they feel but i never have to subject myself to emotional abuse by listening to their right to have their voice heard. 29 words only used to describe women | Stuff.co.nz Baps My husbands family do the same. Whereas a man has great potential a female candidate often lacks prior experience. I am a minister who serves a mainline tradition in the U.S., a tradition that has been ordaining women for a century. Most cultures are male dominated as we know. If you dont agree with her, say so. This person has a cordial relationship with all of the employees, which makes the workspace a positive place for everyone. conversation in a workplace! Dont pretend you know anything about her personal biochemistry. This is the best goddam article Ive ever read on the subject. Peoples lifestyle choices are THEIR OWN, and thus the value that they hold can only be measured in terms of how the PERSON CHOOSING VALUES IT. But I have taught to takenoffence to a slew of questions and comments that simply arent offensive, unless you convince yourself that they are. I was looking for language that propagates violence against women, and while this list isnt that exactly, it was still helpful. I was just mulling this over and it occurred to me that even the words used to describe physical attractiveness are, in themselves, quite telling. And it's not just "aggressive" or "bossy" labels that are thrown around so casually. Subtly sexist words about women and girls. There is a serious problem in the healthcare industry where female patients are assumed to be dramatic or hysterical about their symptoms (or their childrens) , and this can be very, very costly. Period pain (when used by somebody in the insulting phrase Oh, its just period pain) This is a great article. Active Adaptable Adventurous Affable Amiable Amicable Amusing Brave Bright Calm Careful Charming Circumspect Communicative Compassionate Conscientious Considerate Courageous Courteous Creative Determined Diligent Diplomatic Discreet Dynamic Empathetic Energetic Faithful Fearless Friendly Funny Generous Gentle Good Gregarious Helpful Honest Hopeful When men and women display the same behaviours in, say, a workplace, men are much more likely to be called assertive confident, powerful or a strong leader, while women get this list. You complain about words like bubbly, working mother, etc. but there are words that are used to describe exclusively to men too. Emasculatory I feel for the younger generation of women coming through and hope they are not subjected to the same level of sexism but alas, a lot of young men are still being brought up as being the privileged gender, expecting to be the main breadwinner and having a wife at home to raise the children and do all the housework. Indeed, the adjective would appear to be gender. What would make your list? Breathless, adj Commonly applied to women who look 'flustered' and suggesting an inability to control. Ive been able to point out words that make my shoulders clench, but I havent always been able to explain why it bothers me or what to say differently. Viper Thank you for helping me to see through this new lens my own complicity in the life-limiting system of patriarchy. Ive had this conversation a lot, particularly latelymy father is having a hard time processing the #metoo movement and all it entails. Host called senior colleague a C-word in text message obtained by lawyers as part of Dominion lawsuit Tucker Carlson's firing from Fox News came after he used vulgar language to describe a . Check out her stuff for more nuance: On the economics of divorce:What Scott Morrison fails to understand about how divorce affects women, The truth about how your home life interferes with your work life, On in/equality in parenting(This one hitmelike a train.). Other examples, too many to mention. If youve found this article thoughtful and useful, and would like to support me to write more stuff like this, head on over. See also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Whataboutism. Let's move on to another term which is bitchy. EVER heard a man described as being feisty, frumpy or bossy? By actively working to have folks see God as more than a male, deity who uses power over others, I have unintentionally claimed as feminine the characteristics of compassion, mutuality, empowerment, etc. My male sixth-grade teacher took me outside our classroom and told me I was too bossy. Her Indoors I have a thing about misogyny and putting women in their place language. I was accused of bleating while trying to explain why it may be inappropriate for men to fundraise for a hospital by doing a bed push dressed as female nurses Then I realised how this term gives excess credit to the man for the creation of a baby. Intense. 1. 'Words can't even describe it' The next step of her journey would involve implanting one of her embryos. She even accused me of being a selfish career-woman! The Language of Nasty Women (And Other Gendered Insults) - JSTOR Daily 1. Financial matters, salary, study leave, reimbursement for expenses are not equal. The worst offenders are MY OWN FATHER, who accused me of being stuck up; and my MOTHER-IN-LAW, who insults me at every opportunity she gets in such a wide range of ways that I sense all she can do is throw insults. Ive added most of the suggestions to this list, though Ive omitted a great number of the direct insults that we can all recognise as sexist (even if some peoplethink they are acceptable for use.). Bossy/Strong-minded. Honestly I dont feel like it ever will change, its down to the basic fact that women have been systematicly oppressed and controlled because they have allot of power, and if you dont control them hard, most men wouldnt have a chance. Thank you! So many words and suggestions and facts to consider ! Jezebel more . Using different adjectives for women and men You speak about a society and nation, but dont identify your own. Babe (reminds me of the pig! Tucker Carlson's Vulgar, Offensive Messages About Colleagues Helped Women are more emotional than men, that is just how it is. Shrill, Mumsy, Bossy Why Do So Many Gendered Words Undermine Women? I think men and women need to understand masculine and feminine ways of expressing what is going on within. I felt hurt and offended on behalf of my sisters but I didnt want to sound preachy so I said nothing. Women are referred to as "bossy" more often than men are. It happens in our so-called enlightened nations, too. Fierce. After all, if this is what you expect, then one has to ask whether YOU respect other peoples boundaries, etc. Image description: Persona A: It was just a joke! Faced with these atrocities it can feel petty to gently challenge the unequal use of the word abrasive but the same system perpetuates both behaviours and its all based on the same flawed logic. Interestingly, Lerner points out that although anger is a natural emotion shared by both males and females, angry is an insulting term to describe WOMEN, but rarely if ever men. This is a reaction to Sheryl Sandbergs current campaign to get people to stop using the word bossy when describing females. See for instance how flowery the illustrations of Shakespeares use of the word are in this Pinterest search: And though she be but little she is fierce. Baby brain I still have lots of sexist words and phrase to cover here! I want to see feminism value the home and care of the vulnerable as it is fundamental to the health of the workplace. Also, you might like to join us here (BEST PLACE ON THE INTERNETS): https://www.facebook.com/groups/BrilliantAmazingWritersMothers/. Join Macmillan Dictionary on Twitter and Facebook for daily word facts, quizzes and language news. Great list! Dont let these comments slide when you hear them.If youre feeling sarky. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Post was not sent - check your email addresses!
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